Looking for a romantic gift that really makes a statement? Think around the box! Anytime you want to increase the impact of a gift or special occasion for that special someone, add an element of surprise into the mix. You'll be amazed at the results!

When it comes to a romantic gift for her, the surprise doesn't have to be enormous or expensive. It can be as simple as a ring or forget-me-not laid on the pillow when she wakes up, a necklace or note hidden in her handbag, or a candlelight picnic on the floor of the living room for no special reason. The key to a successful surprise is showing her that you have taken the time to consider what she likes.

Coming home with flowers on your anniversary does not qualify as a surprise or a romantic gift. Either does calling FTD. The secret to surprising her is showing that you've taken the time to put some thought and planning into making her happy. Finding something on her pillow when she wakes up is doubly meaningful because it is unexpected and shows that you went to some lengths beyond having an item gift wrapped when you paid for it. Having a gift brought in by the waiter along with dessert lets her know that you made special arrangements beyond the time it took you to buy something.

Adding the element of surprise to your relationship is a great way to keep the spark in your romance. And adding sparkle to the surprise is sure to make the occasion memorable. Whether the surprise is an unexpected overnight trip to a local Bed and Breakfast or a lunchtime tryst in the conference room at her office, give her something that will let her relive the moment every time she wears it.

The surest way to connect the memory of your thoughtfulness is through a visual cue that will make her feel warm and loved each time she sees it. Here are some quick ideas:

• Arrange to have a necklace or bracelet serve as a napkin ring for a romantic meal in her favorite restaurant or on an inexpensive picnic.
• Serve her breakfast in bed and drop a ring into the bottom of her glass of orange juice or morning coffee cup.
• Invite her to an event, ask her to wear your favorite dress and have a velvet bag containing a matching piece of jewelry tied to the hanger when she takes it out of the closet.
• Drop a pendant into a box of popcorn at a movie or sporting event.
• Take her to an amusement park or carnival and arrange to have her win something more meaningful to let her know that she's the real prize in your life.